Hot off the press!! March 11th 2014

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"Are YOU really a GOOD friend?"

   Many times, people are too concerned about finding a good friend and we forget to ask ourselves whether we are good friends to people or not. Ask yourself... Are you a good friend? To really answer this question sincerely, you need to make sure that you look deep within your heart of hearts and really see the kind of person you truly and  really are. Many will discover that they have the element of jealousy in them. When you are jealous about your friends, you have a cancer that will just keep on growing ,and eating at you inside if not dealt with properly. You might be very good when it comes to smiling and talking to people but deep inside, you may be burning up with jealousy. In life, you cannot have the good element of growing a true friendship if you are a jealous and self-centered person. Therefore, you have to look for ways to make YOU a better person. You will heal from your problem(s) only if you are willing to change your negativity/attitude. It is a vital time to embrace healthy competition in life without feeling mad or malice at your close friends. We will always find people who are beyond us no matter how hard we may try, and there is no reason EVER in becoming something you are not. Always stay TRUE to yourself no matter who likes or dislikes it.

        A genuine good friend will overcome jealousy and any negativity by simply confessing. Start by confessing it to yourself. This way, you will help train your mind/heart to actually feel bad or guilty when you do something that you know will not please your friends or hurt them. To become a good friend, you must embrace the spirit of Love, Compassion, understanding, and genuine true affection and this is exactly what you should get back. In many instances, people think that their friends do not notice them being jealous or negative, but the negative fangs of jealousy are pretty hard to hide and chances are that you will make comments, remarks, and decisions that will give you away. Work on this to try and overcome it. Once you are good to go, your life will be much more smoother. You may find that people will give you more respect and such, also you will become more lovable. Let us look at another problem that keeps you from becoming a good friend. If you are out to spoil/smear the names of others, you are likely to remain without a genuine good  friend for a long time if not for life. The moment people know about this sort of attitudes/ behaviors, they will avoid you like the plague.  So SIMPLY Remove your mind from being petty and grow up, may take some time but it will work friends. To make a genuinely  good friend, you need to know that honesty, love, and affection will always carry the day. If you are in a friendship for convenience, what you are gaining will eventually run out and, when this happens, here comes your true colors. Therefore, if you are not willing to show genuine REAL love in a relationship, it is best that you do not enter it in the first place. Be yourself at all times and avoid all those issues/vices that might compromise your friendship. In the end, a genuine true GOOD friendship will always pay and it is worth investing in something real. Try putting the above tips to work, and start to see the differences. You will also be happier instead of just being in limbo, wondering what everyone is thinking about you. In conclusion NEVER worry what others may think of you, good or bad. It is YOU that knows YOU the best, no one else, so do your best in being or becoming that Genuine GOOD FRIEND! Thank You Friends for stopping by my blog, as always feel free to comment,follow,share,email, or just enjoy. Either way I appreciate each and everyone of you that take the time out of your lives to stop by my slice of the web and read what ever it is I may be writing about. Thanks again friends! Truly, Dennis

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Do you have any faith...YES you do!

 

Simple Definition of Faith: is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.


Hello Friends! I pray and hope ALL is well with each and everyone of you. Things in my world as of lately have been very hectic to say the least lol. So the Radio interview I did with The Anti-War Activist Cindy Sheehan went very good, probably one of the smoothest shows I have done thus far.
The following day on Sunday the 26th of May I attended the Monthly PEACE VIGIL courtesy of the wonderful folks of the OWL CREEK GAZETTE MAGAZINE. The Peace Vigil went great, lots of diverse, interesting people attended and of course I had to bring my lil teacup Rex along lol. Cindy and Her team attended the Vigil also. NONE of this would have been possible if it were not for Don and Jan Stover the Editors/Publishers of The Owl Creek Gazette Magazine, for it was them that not only provided a way for Cindy and her Tour de Peace to come here but they also connected myself with her and the Tour de peace team. So BIG THANKS AND HUGS TO DON AND JAN STOVER!
www.owlcreekgazette.com Moving on to the topic of this blog, as you probably already guessed it is about FAITH...above is a simple definition of what faith is...now Some of YOU may say you don't have faith...well here is a generic example of faith in action....Say every morning when you wake..you use the restroom and the toilet flushes properly....Well without realizing it YOU used faith...YOU had faith that the toilet would flush proper after use. Or without hesitation Most of us jump in our vehicles expecting them to start right? OK then That's another generic example of faith...YOU catching on now? I hope so. Now my point finally lol, I have let my faith dampen over time lately....until recently GOD gave me a big faith boost...even on horrible days where I can barely walk or function, I STILL keep faith that no matter what the physical eyes see MY faith kicks in  and reminds me NOTHING is forever while we are still here on earth that is. NO matter what your belief system is, FAITH is something WE all should have and actually use it and not merely say it. I personally have faith that the fibromyalgia and other health issues I live with will be healed/cured...and not years from now but no later than the end of this year even. I am going to attach some VERY faith boosting videos to this blog to help YOU...I know if you're reading this...it is not by accident but by divine appointment :-) So NO MATTER WHAT your beliefs are FAITH works...atleast for the GOOD AND POSITIVE...not to have faith for something negative that would be just flat out ignorant honestly...but either way YOU get my point...SO each video ON THIS blog is carefully picked by myself...watch each one and then recollect on what you just viewed/read and SEE how YOU feel and such.... Truly,DENNIS KELLY

WATCH READ LISTEN..OPEN YOUR HEARTS.......

 

READ ONLY IF YOU KNOW HOW :-)

Welcome friends to the first day of spring 2013! Too bad it feels like nov. still lol, yes that's right it is STILL very chilly and cold out. Has been a very cold and nippy day, but it was nice and sunny. I gazed out the window this morning, noticing how sunny and nice it looked outside and I thought to myself "wow today is going to be somewhat warmer" nevertheless I was wrong lol. Looks can be very deceiving when it comes to the weather here in my region. Not a huge eventful day...my day consisted of waking at 6:30a.m. actually got a decent night of rest for once in quite some time. So by 7:15 I was out the door and then the cold hit me...BAM! Fooled lol, had to go back inside to change to warmer clothing then back out the door lol. By 8:30 I had six promos/commercials recorded, then it was off to do other works that I do..which is many..too many lol. I finally got back home around 4:00p.m. only to get ready for the private yoga class to begin at 4:30ish. So then close to 5:30ish or so Yoga wrapped up. Then I went straight to My Reiki/prayer meditation room for approx: 35 mins. Once I was able to decompress a bit I started on my Reiki studies, by this time it was sooo time to put food in my body lol. As I was taking a break and eating I received atleast six different calls from "friends" wanting my time or wanting a favor...not ONE asked how I was or anything of that nature. So after finishing up the calls and feeling like an at&t operator, I felt the need to go back into meditation for at least an hour or so. Upon "waking" from my meditation...I kinda realized something about people and friends...of course something I already kinda felt but during my meditation I get answers and blessings, clarity on issues and so forth. I came to see and realize TRUE friends are far and few...that is a bit hurtful, but we all have friends and a lot of folks talk about friendships. Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration. How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship one might ask well....in my opinion, the very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies and such. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves to a true friend. We speak about everything on our minds without worrying about what our friends or others will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk. A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism or backstabbing. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with you  in times of need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the best extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children...most mothers anyway. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends. A true friend makes no excuses about anything but will be with you whenever your in dire need of him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier.I would say a true friend is like a brother, but I know how siblings can be! Instead of having hundreds of good friends all over the world, from an array of backgrounds, if you have that one true friend, then consider  yourself lucky. If you can become a true friend to someone,you should and I believe you will be blessed.  It is much easier for all of us to expect, but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first then see how the loving circle completes. THANK YOU for stopping by my personal little spot here on the worldwide web. As always feel free to comment, share, express, follow me, and smile :-)
                                                               Truly, Dennis...