Are YOU Disappointed??

   

                   NOVEMBER 15, 2013


     Hi Friends, I hope each and everyone of you are 

well and happy. Today I am not going to touch base 

on my life too much, instead I will get straight to my 
blog point. 

You see I do many types of works, not just 

Radio/Entertainment. One of the Jobs/Service that I do is Intuitive advisory. I counsel great people locally and globally, this is all done in a highly sensitive and confidential manner for many reasons. I often get clients that have major relationship issues with loved ones and so forth. There are some people that become very distraught and disappointed when a breakup, divorce, fight, or even loss of occupation(s). So let's say you're disappointed. Your dream, hopes, etc. has ended in the trashbin you may feel. So, after you get finished with the tears, cursing, laying on the floor, kicking your heels, and screaming; or going on a drunken/drug/food binge, or even beating someone up, you find you're still disappointed, and all that 

acting ignorant hasn't fixed anything. Now what do 
you do? Disappointment is a dead-end in your road of life. 
Now you need to figure out a new direction.

When what you're doing in a job, project, relationship 

or to pursue a dream is not working no matter what 

you try, even if you've gotten some expert advice on 

the issue at hand, (relationship counseling, etc.) that 

it's not going to work, it's probably a sign to move 

on. I think One must first Check to see if you are resisting doing what you know you need to do to make it work, and if you won't or can't do it, then you're wasting your time, emotions, energy, and it's time to change directions. If you gave it your absolute very best shot, and you still know it's over, then don't waste ANY time whatsoever in resentment and anger. It will hold you back and could eventually harm you in many ways.

If you do however need to get therapy of sorts to help 

you through this transition, I say without a doubt do it, so you can grieve what's lost. 

Even if you ended it, you still may feel you have lost all of your hopes and dreams. My personal opinion is to focus on moving forward to building a good 

life in your newly disappointed feeling circumstance(s). Make sure you take care 

of yourself emotionally, mentally, and physically. 

You'll feel a lot less resentment if you keep yourself 

together and in good health, spend time with a good 

friend or family member this needed for your support 

too.

This is the definite time to have your TRUE friends and/or 

family around you, you need support everyone does in some way. Don't isolate yourself(trust me I would know), you don't have to go right out and start something new again at all,  I strongly suggest going slow with that. Also you should have a social outlet of sorts with friends and family. 

Even when you don't think you feel ready to see 

people, push through and go and visit/see your closest 

friends and family. Spend time with them they'll help 

you heal, (along with time of course) and remind you 

that you still have people who love you.

Here's some little "do's & don'ts" that I recommend:

DO put it all in an "outer" perspective when thinking about the disappointment, and YES it does hurt, but your life is not over. Look to your future, and see what you can do to make that disappointment into a blessing.

DO understand that you had some control, but not complete control over this. Look at what happened. What possibly caused your loss? You can improve your effort, your skills, your spirit and look forward to the next chapter in your life. On the other hand, don't blame yourself for the things you couldn't control. Take a balanced view of the entire situation.

DON'T give up No one is a failure until they quit. 

Don't quit when you're behind. Instead, get determined to do the BEST you can at every task you encounter.

DO try to for sure learn from the experience, Every disappointment/failure is a moment you can grow from. You can learn from whatever went wrong. Re-play your (mental or actual) tapes of the event, and try to figure out how you can improve.

DON'T expect everyone to sympathize beyond the first few moments. Sympathy is OK and needed...but only for a short while, it can debilitate you in the grand scheme of things. Makesure to meditate/pray often and eventually You'll feel better and strong enough  build yourself  back up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game of life friends because not one of us is promised a 2moro.

Well friends, I hope this little blog helped someone out there in this crazy world. I'm no doctor "Phil" but I know the HUMAN ways of things for the most part anyway lol. Thanks for stopping by my blog today.

                        Truly, Dennis Kelly

Just a lil random rant...

Hello friends, It has been a busy and cold day to say the least. So I am in high hopes to get this insurance crap situated soon so It stops slowing my schedule down and causing more stress than needed. Lately I have been doing a lot of self-reflecting, I have noticed how I haven't had a Miracle lately...call me crazy but they really do occur, small and large. I with my personal belief system give credit to my creator. However I respect YOU that have other belief systems. We are all still brothers and sisters on this earth. Now most if not all of this blog is directed to the fundamentalist Christians and Believers in Christ. I am pointing out how a GIGANTIC portion DO NOT believe in Miracles....to me miracles are normal and should be expected if one truly claims to be a christian according to the Holy bible...Im not here to bash whatsoever I wanna make that CLEAR friends. I usually don't blog about my faith but today I am pointing out something I have personally noticed through the years when I actually attended a church on a regular basis. I had noticed at many of the churches I had went to they almost all did not speak of MIRACLES, with me personally miracles from my creator is not unusual but feels normal. Anywhoot, so these local churches that I had visited mainly preached on two main things MONEY and SIN....now sin, yea that is ok sometime...we all need a good peptalk...but MONEY and when all the services at the churches seemed to be built on digging in the pockets and constantly pointing out personal flaws instead of building one up...This is when I realized I can worship and have time with my Father without going to some "Church Show" I call it that because that is what they all were just like a play you go watch except YOUR apart of it lol, NOW don't get me wrong there are A Lot of GOOD fruitful, spirit filled churches out there....just be careful of WHICH spirit that church may be operating under. I think an open mind is a must to receive miracles and an open heart, but I think it begins with an open MIND first.
Every Christian/Believer, is at some point affected by church traditions and cultures. Depending on denominational or church backgrounds, we will have different concepts of miracles. This Even goes for other religions that believes in miracles, you still need to have an OPEN mind about it. Many Fundamentalists and even some believers, do not all study the bible by ourselves. Most of the time, we depend upon our elders, bible teachers and "godly" leaders to show us what they THINK the bible says. We make the assumption that they are more knowledgeable than we are and so we simply trust what they have taught. This can be very dangerous in my opinion, Can be good and very fruitful the RIGHT WAY...the Fruits of the Spirit is the KEY to finding the right Spiritual Leader, I personally believe.

Many church traditions have their positive aspects but some of these are producing negative and damaging results. Therefore, it is not whether my church tradition/belief system is better than yours or vice versa. The key is to find out which aspects of  traditions are in line with what the word says about Miracles as well as knowing in your spirit what is right. It is dangerous to simply take things for granted. Man is not perfect.

                                                     Well my friends thanks for stopping by and reading my little rant lol, feel free to follow, share, comment, or just enjoy and of course excuse any and all grammar and spelling mistakes LOL.

                                                Truly, Dennis

The Dennis Kelly Center: SERIOUSLY!?

The Dennis Kelly Center: SERIOUSLY!?: Hello Friends, I must tell you I almost didn't even bother to write this blog tonight, but it kept itching at me. You see I have had...

SERIOUSLY!?

Hello Friends, I must tell you I almost didn't even bother to write this blog tonight, but it kept itching at me. You see I have had a HORRIBLE day...not just  a bad day but one of those days where you think to yourself "SERIOUSLY!"...YES my friends that has been my day. It started when I woke, I actually felt ok for once this morning until I was finished getting ready for the day and rushed out the door..into the very chilly air and wind, then BOOM! The ignorant fibromyalgia that I live with kicked in high gear, whereas my skin began to burn all over<imagine the worst sunburn times 100> then the different muscle and joint pain kicked in also. I thought to myself "GREAT! Just what I need on a Monday when I have much to do and get finished." Anywhoot, I obviously jumped in the car, got it warm and cookin' and went about my day in basic agony BUT I tried my best to THINK POSITIVE, which is what my blog today is about. Anyway So I did my absolute best with pushing the negatives and THINKING THE POSITIVES as well as a lot of prayer lol. I finally was finished with the day and thought to myself "well, the day did suck but now I can go home and just relax." hoping to feel better of course. But I had thought about driving out of town to a nice little small country town near here to visit with one of my best and sweet aunts. So as I am driving I am still in some basic agony but some had let up, I payed close attention to the beauty and the nature, even the beautiful hills with some cattle in pasture. By doing my best to pay close attention to my beautiful countryside driving scenes, I diverted the negative thoughts and feelings and more positive came in, I am not saying I felt physically wonderful because I didnt and still dont, what I am saying is this beautiful country drive helped me mentally and gave me an overall feel of "ok Dennis everything will be ok in due time." So I arrive at my aunt's home in a much better mood,I came in and sat down in the comfy country kitchen. I was about 20 minutes into having a nice and well needed chat with my aunt, suddenly we all here a very loud Boom sound......WELL apparently some younger gentlemen I suppose early twenties side swiped my car...I felt tight in my chest and thought to myself "SERIOUSLY!.?" So The car is a total wreck unable to drive, the young man who hit my PARKED car...by the way I was parked in a parking spot on the RIGHT side of the road...nevertheless we all make mistakes so I forgive the young man without a doubt. But NOW you see is much more STRESS that I do NOT need mentally and PHYSICALLY....Insurance Time....I do believe he will be blamed 100% due to hitting a parked car but in the meantime I STILL have THIS NEW MONSTER on my back for the time being....SO the only way to get through this without going crazy lol is POSITIVE THINKING, MEDITATION, PRAYER, AND EXERCISE. 

Work got you down? Are these thoughts on auto-replay in your mind three months later - a year later? And do these constant thoughts make you feel more and more anxious or depressed?

We all suffer from anxious moments and feeling down occasionally, but if these feelings are part of your daily routine, perhaps it is time to evaluate your surroundings and your thinking to see if some positive energy will help. If you continue to focus on things that make you anxious and depressed, you will continue to attract more situations and thoughts that create even more anxiety and despair. What you focus on is what you get. What you think about is what you create. I think we all need balance in our lives in order to allow positivity to fully manifest in our lives, I am working on this DAILY lol.I think balance is the ultimate objective both in our surroundings and in our mind, soul, body,spirit/soul.. If we are always thinking negative thoughts and focusing on the things that have gone wrong our lives, we lose the balance and harmony in our life and attract only the negative things which snowball into more things that go wrong and so forth. To stop the constant replay of things going wrong in our life,  maybe we should try to shift to positive energy in our all of our surroundings and thoughts even our actions. What follows are a few things I try to apply, Just some suggestions on how to create positive energy so you can permanently push the stop button on negative thinking and create a better life which goes your way more often.

**Go outside where the sun is shining and take a walk. Or, open your curtains and turn on bright lights in your home. Light automatically raises your energy levels and thoughts.

** Find brightly colored rooms if you have any in your home, to spend time in when feeling down. Even you have the extra money Go shopping and purchase a LITTLE something for yourself<not over indulging> - it may cheer you up. If you are feeling anxious - spend time in a room that is QUIET and COMFORTABLE- you will respond positively to the calming energy of the pure Silence if you just close your eyes and let go.

**Get a notebook or a book for writing and create a Gratitude Journal. Write at least 10 things you are thankful for every day in your journal. If you can't think of anything start with things like having a roof over your head, food on the table or having the ability to walk from your bedroom to the kitchen. Anything will do until you get the hang of it and get into the habit of writing, it can be a way of self therapy lol. The more grateful you are for everything and everyone in your life the less time you have to feel sorry for yourself, trust me I know I deal with that every so often,  you will find that a lot more things have gone your way than you thought.

**Play uplifting nurturing music instead of watching television, make sure the music is soft and calming. I personally prefer natural native american music, with it soothing waters and flutes and such really helps. Even SING out loud if you want to.

**LAST BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, Meditation, Prayer and Relaxation are strong essential tools to achieve positivty, to me anyway. Without having the meditation and Prayers daily that I do in my personal time, I can HONESTLY say I would either be completly insane or literally dead<thats another story lol> My point I feel wholeheartedly this is the most important little tip for thinking and BEING positive. 

Well my friends I hope I didnt bore you too much lol, I am sorry for all the grammar errors, its just been a horrible day and I honestly am not up to editing lol. SO good day, good night, good afternoon, to ALL my readers. I have noticed ALL the thousands of readers around the globe and I THANK each and everyone of you for stopping by my blogs, I appreciate you all, from the U.S, Russia, China, Malaysia,Israel, Africa,Spain,Bolivia,Germany,Japan,Brazil,South Korea, and ALL the others that I didn't mention, YOU ALL are equally Appreciatied. Truly, Dennis Kelly

Did YOU know???

Hello Friends, I have been working on this particular blog for a few days lol, it seems everytime I get the chance to sit and write this blog, something comes up lately as if trying to stop me from doing this blog lol. Anyway I recovered from the recent surgery, slowly but surely. I am beyond fed up with the healthkill world yes healthkill not healthcare because that's what it is here in America. America has become such a ridiculous nation that I am disgusted and saddened to what "WE THE PEOPLE" have allowed the elite terrible and power hungry officials/government to do to our nation and our constitution to fit their SICK agendas. YES, we Are at the beginning stages of a full out police state society with martial law coming sooner than later, I don't personally feel ANY Genuine freedoms we once had as AMERICANS....are even in existence anymore with our rights being took from us minute by minute. At this point I often wonder a lot if its too late to even STAND UP and give a crap anymore. BUT no matter what happens in this once great nation, I personally will always try my best to stay positive and help my fellow brothers and sisters here on earth. This leads me to my blog topic. I want ALL OF YOU to realize YOU are SPECIAL and is on this planet for a reason and not just to exist but to LIVE a full abundant happy LIFE! With all the hate, crazy crap going on worldwide, the hate crimes, school shootings, etc. I felt it was more than the right time to remind YOU that YOU are so special. At the end of the blog I included a music video that really makes a good point about being special no matter what people may say or you may think about yourself, the song is a touching song full of raw truths, please take the time to watch it and if I would LIKE your actual feedback on your thoughts and such on the video/song, YOU don't have to leave feedback but YOU know I do appreciate it.

You are special. Just like your fingerprint is unique, you are a unique person with a special purpose. No one is born to do the things that aren't fruitful or to better your life. YOU have purpose!  "You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous--and how well I know it." (Psalm 139:13-14 NLT) A great philosopher James Allen wrote in his book 'As a Man Thinketh'  I think thats the name of the book lol.."As a being of power, intelligence, and love, and the lord of his own thoughts, man holds key to every situation, and contains within himself that transforming and regenerative agency by which he may make himself what he wills."Do not compare yourself with others. There is no need to compare yourself with another person. If you look around, there may be many people who excel in your field. You can learn from them, but do not let them intimidate you. Never, ever compare yourself with others whether you feel they are superior to you or inferior to you. Do not let that hinder your genius and gifts. Be your best and be totally dedicated and that is all what matters. When you are at your best, everything you do is still a masterpiece because YOU did your best. You do not have to prove anything to anybody. You have the same three-pound brain like everybody else, which is capable of doing wonderful things. I once heard  a story about a man named " C.V.Raman", a genius who won the Nobel Prize for Physics: One of his students was once experimenting with an X-ray tube of 1-kilowatt power. The student got discouraged when he found out that a scientist in the united kingdom is experimenting on the same problem with a 5-kilowatt X-ray tube. With a smile, Raman suggested his student, "The solution is very simple; use your 10-kilowatt brain on the problem." You too have the 10-kilowatt power brain and you too can use it for your own special and unique purposes in life. The whole world of opportunity is open to you. Think of all the wonderful things you could do and enjoy.

Why and how does it matter?:

By realizing that you are special, you can make a difference in the world, you can have a very positive and powerful impact on your surroundings and on others. The successful accomplishments of your dreams lead to greater contribution to yourself, your family, and the world. By being and trying your best, you can make a great impact on  society, like Thomas Edison, Henry Ford, etc. You have the unique qualities and exceptional genius and gifts within you. Imagine the impact the world can experience by having hundred Edisons. Take action. There was a young man who was an artist. He used to get discouraged thinking that, may be there are other good artists who are better than he is. Hardly any of his friends encouraged; few others discouraged him. He went ahead and participated in the competition anyway. When he won the award, a guy commented, "This does not mean that you are the best. There may be other good artists, who did not participate in the contest". May be true, but participation and trying his BEST is what was important. By not participating/trying your best, you lose your chance to be successful and to use your gifts to better your world and others lives.. By taking full action, you bring your unique abilities and gifts to the table. You make the world a better place to live. SO Step out and do something with what you were created with my friends..

"The difference between what we are capable of doing and what we do, can solve most of the problems in this world." - Mahatma Gandhi.

There is enough for all of us. There is an abundance of good things ALL can be available to you. By keeping in mind that you are special,  you will hopefully  have an abundant supply of opportunities and ideas and so forth to excel in your chosen endeavor.

Something I do sometimes and it WORKS,  you can say to yourself to  feel great and remind YOU how  special YOU are always:

Take a piece of paper and write down the following self-affirmations. Keep the paper with you always and read it whenever you can out loud, at least two times a day. You will experience a difference, because spoken words are beyond powerful.....so powerful that its beyond your wildest dreams..

• I am wonderfully and beautifully made
• I am a lot stronger and more powerful than I think.
• I have unlimited potential.
• All the power is within me; I can achieve anything I set my mind to.
• I am abundant. My life is abundant with good things and positive people.
• Every day, in every way I am becoming better and better.
• I strive for excellence in everything I do.
• I deserve the best this life has to offer me.

You deserve to be successful. You deserve to be great.

Well friends, I thank you for stopping by my blogspot. I hope this helped at least someone out in this world. Feel free to FOLLOW,SHARE,COMMENT,FOLLOW,FOLLOW,COMMENT. :-)         Truly, Dennis Kelly

"Same Love" Mackelemore

Are You happy?

Hello Friends, before I get to the blog I prepared for you, I have some stuff to vent about lol. So bare with me of course it is my blog, but I enjoy YOU stopping by too :-) Well Lately has been so busy with Doctor appointments, Meetings, Prior engagments/events, The radio show and LIFE lol. Now I don't like to talk about my health issues in public but right now I need ALL of YOU prayer warriors to send prayers my way please. :-) 2moro I will be getting yet another urology surgery, This is a must I can not get out of the surgery...trust me I would. Without going into great detail on the actual surgery/my business, the surgeons will be going into my bladder and the kidney areas to remove any and all scar tissue. This condition is rare and not much is known about it, it did not begin until I was around 26 I think..could be off a bit on the age, but nevertheless I had got smaller similar surgeries after but only like 2 in a four year period. But the past 3 years at least the tissue grows back at such a rapid rate that I  now must recieve surgery every 6 weeks 8 if Im lucky. The doctors tell me they are baffled at the speed of it as much as I am. Yes I have been to many doctors. Moving on and btw if you have a question regarding what I just told YOU, email don't ask on a public social network Thank you....A few days ago was the local trunk and treat here downtown, and then the following evening I went with family to take my little cousins and nephew to Hazlet state park, a really beautiful Camping and Nature Reserve. The place had treats everywhere for the kids and was decorated beyond belief! Hats off to all the good people that put the event together. On a side note, the radio show is finally starting to spark my interest again thankfully. I have been trying to add some interesting change slowly to the show such as having a monthly Guest Co-host Ms. Roxanne Bare. She is a local lady that owns and operates an awesome shop Terra Matter Botanicals and Market, heres the site if you would like to shop www.terramatermarket.com Anywhoo Roxanne has co-hosted once so far and the radio/hosting dynamics during the show was great and fun, I really enjoyed having her on and I was suprised a bit by her too because she handled herself very well on-air especially with the crazy guest we had on lol. So yes I'm optimistic about the show a lot more than I had been. We also have a new short segment "Words of Dawn" where a Local woman comes and shares some of her homegrown poetry with us. Also We have a Guest DJ monthly Named Konner :-) Konner is a very special 9 or 10 year old <not sure if hes 10 yet lol> You see Konner suffers from a Horrible Horrible Health Issue(s) I wont go into detail but you can find more info on Facebook. He does a great Job being a DJ and I pray for him to grow up and have a great life in radio, he seems to like it a lot :-) Ok Now I will shut UP! LOL..below is a blog I put together, it came to me at about 3a.m. Last night so I figured It is for someone out there or perhaps myself lol. Enjoy my friends!


                                  "Are You Happy?"

Most,not all but most people spend their lives in a cycle/ routine. They wake up, have breakfast, go to work, go home, have dinner, pay bills, Family matters, sleep, etc. For others, they spend their days at home doing chores or watch the kids etc. and do same the next day and so on  and so on... It's not surprising that people feel bored and unhappy about their lives and experience way too much stress  than they should more often than not, I know I've been there plenty of times personally. Although there are others that are comfortable with the life they have and don't have any plans or goals of making any POSITIVE changes in life or in the life of others..We all want to live a happy life, one secret most do not realize is to simply enjoy life without having to make excuses that you don't have enough time, money, materialistic things, because you can start enjoying your life now with what you already have, because remember someone out in this world has NOTHING..... Add excitement to your life and it doesn't always mean that you need to go out, shop or even go for a vacation. You can still have fun while doing your daily routine or use your personal time to do exciting things. GET CREATIVE AND START THINKING POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT!  Here are simple ways that I try sometimes, YOU can GIVE THEM A TRY yourself and SEE the difference my friends!

 Explore - Have you been taking the same route when you drive to work or home? Why not take a different route next time so you'll get to see a different scenery.

 Be more adventurous - Doing something new or different once in awhile. Try eating an exotic food or engage yourself in sports that you haven't tried before. Try doing something creative, painting, drawing, creating, etc.

 Challenge yourself - It doesn't matter what it is, just do something that you normally don't do and then push yourself to the limit. It's exciting if you have accomplished something you never thought you could and boost your self-confidence and add to your self-esteem. I know this from past events in my personal life.

 Make new friends/networks - In meeting new people, you may also discover new things about many interesting people, I certainly have met plenty of people especially certain ones that have had and still do have positive impacts on my life..

 Plan an adventure - Take your kids or kids in your family  to a park,  hiking, boating, to the beach or go camping. There's nothing more exciting than spending time with your family kids and have an adventure together. It's priceless to watch them learn what you teach them and watch them grom, They are a true Blessing!

 Do volunteer work - Helping other people are both exciting and rewarding. You will truly find joy if you do something good for others. Nursing homes are a perfect place to start these poor lonely people need love and attention just like YOU do.

 Get a hobby - do something you love the most and follow your passion because this will make you centered in times of irritation, works for me anyway :-)

 Laugh more - Watch a funny movie, show, or read a funny book. You can even watch cartoons with your kids or go to a comedy club. Laughter is fun, it's good for your Soul, and it's free.

 Live in the now - Forget the past and the future is not here yet. Live your life today and make the most out of right now.

. Stop worrying - Don't waste your energy and time thinking about things that are not worth thinking about or things you can't change right now. Every time your mind is stuck at worrying, you are wasting a good opportunity to enjoy your day and Life. Think positive and don't let your negative thoughts get the better of you. What do you actually think you are gaining something from being a worry bug? NO. Trust me I should know this is something I battle with sometimes also.

It is our days that define our life and no matter what our choices are, you have to remember that you only have one life to live so don't waste it by depriving yourself of the simple, materialistic, pleasures in this life. No amount of money will help you enjoy life to the fullest, no relationship will complete you to the fullest, these temporary material things will make you a false happiness if you convince yourself that your life will be better if you have them. But in the long run do YOU honestly think it's worth it? Make the choice to be happy now and enjoy life to the fullest.

Friends, thank you yet again for stopping by my blog. I appreciate each and everyone of you around the world. Feel free to share, comment. follow, etc. Bless you all! Truly Dennis

From the Desk Oct, 14th 2013

                       "AFFIRMATIONS'

Hello Friends, it is a sunny chilly autumn day here in the Mid-west. Today's blog is about something I recommend to ALL, Affirmations. To a big extent, I believe our happiness and our success in life is determined by the thoughts we hold in our subconscious mind. Positive affirmations are powerful statements that are used to build a positive internal dialog to one's self. By consistently repeating positive affirmations to yourself, you create positive subconscious thoughts. These new, positive, productive thoughts will replay automatically throughout your life. Each time they replay, they'll reinforce the new positive inner-image you have of yourself and your life in general. By replacing old, negative thinking with new, positive subconscious thoughts you'll be able to access the endless resources of positive energy you have within yourself. And you'll be able to create a new, positive reality for yourself.

When you use positive affirmations, let yourself really feel them. Fully experience each one. Enjoy them. Assume each affirmation to be true in your physical reality. Feel the positive emotions that are appropriate for this positive reality. This will help you make positive changes more quickly and automatically.

At the end of this blog you'll  carefully chosen,tested, positive affirmations that will help get you started. I personally have and still use affirmations daily including some below. Select the ones that you think will be most helpful. Write them down, carry them with you, and use them often. Get into the habit of saying them while you're doing routine things such as brushing your teeth, work, driving, washing your hands, etc. You get the point.

Utilize the Benefits of Using daily Positive Affirmations

You must continue to actively "eject/get rid of" the negatives you experience daily. If you use affirmations occasionally, but allow negatives to dominate your thoughts/actions throughout the day, any progress you make will be quickly negated. So, if you find yourself thinking a negative thought or being negative, consciously "eject get rid of" that thought and replace it with one of your favorite positive affirmations if you have any. Below are some Affirmations I put together, You may find them useful, silly, useless,and so forth BUT don't knock it until you give it a try. I know ALL this is easier said than done....but what do you have to lose by trying...? NOTHING! Try which ever one you feel keen to and do it for 30 days and see the DIFFERECE :-) Everyday is a NEW day....

TOTAL RELAXATION

o I feel calm and relaxed.

o I breathe slowly and deeply.

o With each breath I become more relaxed.

o I breathe as a calm relaxed person.

o I feel completely carefree.

o I am free of worldly cares.

o I am free of unwanted stress.

o It is healthy and wise to let go and relax.

o I choose to enjoy this moment.

o I feel very positive and confident.

o I feel so peaceful and calm.

o I feel so comfortable.

o I feel like smiling.

o I am smiling.

o I am happy and content - and so relaxed.

SUPER STRENGTH SELF-ESTEEM

o I am at peace with myself.

o I accept myself.

o My self-esteem is growing daily.

o I love the real me.

o I'm happy being who I am.

o All I have to be is me.

o My life is meaningful.

o My life is important.

o I now make good use of my life.

o I'll now be the best me I can be.

o I don't have to be perfect; I just choose to be perfectly me.

o I now recognize my talents and skills.

o I feel good about myself.

o I feel better each moment.

o I'm happy being me.

o The more I accept and love myself, the more I can accept and love others.

BECOMING TOTALLY POSITIVE...AUTO-MATICALLY

o I now eject negativity from my mind and inner self.

o I now control my thoughts.

o I now control my feelings.

o I'm building a storehouse of positive energy.

o I'm storing positive thoughts.

o I'm storing positive images.

o I am in charge of my mind and thoughts.

o I am in charge of my life.

o I choose to be positive.

o I am positive.

o I have great potential and I'm going to use it.

o Every day life gets better & better.

o I expect good things to happen.

o I see something positive in all situations.

o I turn negatives into positives.

o I am totally positive.

Thank YOU for stopping by friends, I hope this blog was able to lend YOU a helping hand in one way or another. As always feel free to comment,share,follow,or just simply enjoy :-)  Truly, Dennis Kelly