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"Are YOU really a GOOD friend?"
Many times, people are too concerned about finding a good friend and we forget to ask ourselves whether we are good friends to people or not. Ask yourself... Are you a good friend? To really answer this question sincerely, you need to make sure that you look deep within your heart of hearts and really see the kind of person you truly and really are. Many will discover that they have the element of jealousy in them. When you are jealous about your friends, you have a cancer that will just keep on growing ,and eating at you inside if not dealt with properly. You might be very good when it comes to smiling and talking to people but deep inside, you may be burning up with jealousy. In life, you cannot have the good element of growing a true friendship if you are a jealous and self-centered person. Therefore, you have to look for ways to make YOU a better person. You will heal from your problem(s) only if you are willing to change your negativity/attitude. It is a vital time to embrace healthy competition in life without feeling mad or malice at your close friends. We will always find people who are beyond us no matter how hard we may try, and there is no reason EVER in becoming something you are not. Always stay TRUE to yourself no matter who likes or dislikes it.
A genuine good friend will overcome jealousy and any negativity by simply confessing. Start by confessing it to yourself. This way, you will help train your mind/heart to actually feel bad or guilty when you do something that you know will not please your friends or hurt them. To become a good friend, you must embrace the spirit of Love, Compassion, understanding, and genuine true affection and this is exactly what you should get back. In many instances, people think that their friends do not notice them being jealous or negative, but the negative fangs of jealousy are pretty hard to hide and chances are that you will make comments, remarks, and decisions that will give you away. Work on this to try and overcome it. Once you are good to go, your life will be much more smoother. You may find that people will give you more respect and such, also you will become more lovable. Let us look at another problem that keeps you from becoming a good friend. If you are out to spoil/smear the names of others, you are likely to remain without a genuine good friend for a long time if not for life. The moment people know about this sort of attitudes/ behaviors, they will avoid you like the plague. So SIMPLY Remove your mind from being petty and grow up, may take some time but it will work friends. To make a genuinely good friend, you need to know that honesty, love, and affection will always carry the day. If you are in a friendship for convenience, what you are gaining will eventually run out and, when this happens, here comes your true colors. Therefore, if you are not willing to show genuine REAL love in a relationship, it is best that you do not enter it in the first place. Be yourself at all times and avoid all those issues/vices that might compromise your friendship. In the end, a genuine true GOOD friendship will always pay and it is worth investing in something real. Try putting the above tips to work, and start to see the differences. You will also be happier instead of just being in limbo, wondering what everyone is thinking about you. In conclusion NEVER worry what others may think of you, good or bad. It is YOU that knows YOU the best, no one else, so do your best in being or becoming that Genuine GOOD FRIEND! Thank You Friends for stopping by my blog, as always feel free to comment,follow,share,email, or just enjoy. Either way I appreciate each and everyone of you that take the time out of your lives to stop by my slice of the web and read what ever it is I may be writing about. Thanks again friends! Truly, Dennis
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