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Hello friends, I hope all is well with you in your world this week. My world lately has been like a rollercoaster up and down, with dealing w/my many different facets of works that I do/involved with, also dealing with certain family and friends being toxic to me. Not ALL but a select few anyway. I touched base on ridding my life and my Entertainment teams circle of creative folks, on my recent Saturday Night Ride Radio show uncut episode. One of my resolutions for 2014 is to rid the toxic people, relationships, things, etc. from my life source. So far I have rid myself of atleast 30 toxic so called "friends" and am still working on weeding out the negatives and make room for the POSITIVES to enter into my life. I also have had to rid myself of my own toxic attitudes and such. The whole point of this blog is to help YOU be happy without the negatives/Toxic people in this world...You don't have to go very far to find negativity. Just watch the news, listen to the radio, even on the internet and in social media, it can feel like where ever people gather, complaining, whining and negativity will follow.
Try to KEEP your attitude positive, and you'll find more things to be positive about in general. Life will get better, you'll feel happier. The secret is surrounding yourself with good people, and avoiding the rest. Avoid these 3 types of people, I broke down a "Toxic category of People" lol
Troll. They lie waiting for someone to say something and then BOOM they will swoop in and burst the bubble. A troll is someone who comes in and says something destructive to you or about you, with no purpose other than to get a reaction from you. You probably don't even know this person. This happens a lot online. Through email, Facebook, Twitter,etc. People will say things they wouldn't dare say face-to-face. All they are looking for is attention, so by not giving it to them you win and they will disappear.
Dream-Stealer. This person likes to be always 'realistic." You have some exciting news, or a great idea, or a big dream and all they want to do is make you see all the possible chances for failures. They say things to make you doubt yourself even. They also love to be right and will do what they can to make sure that they're right and you're wrong. They also enjoy being able to say, "I told you so." Easiest way to deal with a Dream-Stealer is to protect your good news. If you have something to share, got a great idea, or have an opportunity coming up do not tell this person first. Tell others first. This protects yours positive energy.
Frienemy. This someone who is a Friend and an Enemy. I encourage you to look at this kind of friend.. How do you know you have one?
· You dread calling them if you have to for any general reason.
· You always feel worse after spending time with them.
· You have been friends for a long time, but aren't sure why you have kept in touch.
· You become someone you don't like when you're with them. (whiny, complainy, negative).
· If you have a frienemy....talk to them about it if you want to remain friends (they may not be aware of it)
· If you don't want to remain friends just stop spending so much time with them. If avoiding them bothers you, tell them outright that you are in different places in life and have nothing in common any more. Toxic people have a way of draining the life energy from you, leaving you negative, numb and unsure of how to deal with them. These kinds of toxic people can be really hard to deal with alone. If you are currently dealing with a "Troll," "Dream-Stealer" or "Frienemy you'll want to snip that connection SOONER than LATER! Well Friends I hope this little tid bit helped you some. Now I must go broadcast on Spreaker.com, If you would like to tune in just simply go to spreaker.com and search " Dennis Kelly" and you should find me on the Saturday Night Ride Radio Show Uncut edition. Thank you for stopping by! I appreciate you all! Truly, Dennis Kelly
