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HI friends, Today is the last blog of the year and the last day of 2013! This year has had many ups and downs in my personal life and business life. Just recently on Saturday December the 28th we had our Season 9 finale on The Saturday Night Ride Radio Show that I host. I have high hopes that 2014 is going to be a positive LIFE CHANGING year, filled with greatness! So I had surgery again on the 26th just 2 days before our season 9 finale...it was tough...not only because I am STILL recovering from the surgery but the same day a cousin of mine sadly died under some odd circumstances. The past few months have been the worst all year, I have had two beloved pets die this year, few friends and family member died also, As of lately I am finding out more and more of WHO is real and WHO is a fake friend. You see my friends there are plenty of people around me that pretend to care and such, when in reality they are just in my life for their OWN agenda. I have very very high intuition and I can see/feel much much more than these people even realize. I feel very underestimated and a bit hurt by the fake friendships...I assist many folks with a lot of different projects,businesses,individuals, and only a small handful are REAL when it comes to actually showing some appreciation of me. As far as my radio and hosting skills/talents go...I am NO LONGER afraid to express myself 100% and I now realize I DO have some talents to offer this dying world. Speaking of talent, Sunday January 5th 2014, Is my first audition of the year and I hope this is a precursor to whats to come. The parts that I will be auditioning for is for another childrens production, the pay is very very good...better than I expected i'll leave it at that lol. However this production will be a LIVE on stage project, not like the film I was in. I have been in many stage productions but not one that will be on a Tour, so if I do happen to get a lead role, I will be doing some traveling and Touring for the first time with a team of actors and crew. I will know next week if I got the part or not, either way I am thankful for getting the chance to audition already only 5 days into the new year. Another thing I have noticed this year 2013, Is about half/50% of ALL the so called friends I encounter weekly,daily,monthly, etc. Are fake to me! HALF of my so called friends are total fakes as being a friend! THIS not only hurts but pisses me off to the core...knowing I try my best with everyone and ALWAYS try to lend a helping hand if Im able...yet this 50% does not appreciate nor show it unless ofcourse I'm either promoting their agenda or doing something that pleases them. WELL I GOT NEWS FOR YOU FOLKS THAT FALL IN THIS 50% CATEGORY.....I ALREADY KNOW..who most of you are and I will slowly be weeding YOU ALL out of my life and my business endeavors. Out of this 50% of these vamps....there are a few that I got my EYE on.....I think YOU know who you are...with your passive aggressive behaviors towards me and my endeavors. A TRUE friend will support YOU no matter what, A TRUE friend will STILL be there for you even if you don't agree with their beliefs,faith, etc. NOW the FAKES/VAMPS they are only around when they need to suck off of you, whether it be for financial gain, material gain, or just to simply cause you more pain lol..Either way I am totally rooting out these type of individuals. When I up root YOU THE FAKES, YOU WILL KNOW IT! Moving on....This year of 2013 has been a good year in radio and 2014 looks to be even better, with more and more listeners tuning in each week to more listeners to the uncensored version of the radio show that airs on spreaker.com ..The Uncensored Version of The Saturday night ride radio show is not new actually...you see we began it in 2012 early; I do believe, but we had some creative differences with 2 cast members...well FORMER cast members now. Anyway we took a long break from the Internet uncensored version until the past month or so. The thing that is really starting to get under my skin is that We have had hundreds of plays yet most people that have tuned in are too Lazy to Click the follow button...NOW I am sure Most do not feel like creating a free account just to click the FOLLOW button...BUT THE ONES that claim to care about me and claim to like the Radio show have not clicked on FOLLOW not even a share or comment ....This shows me either one of two things... one these type of folks are very FAKE and are only out for personal gain and are personal agenda pushers..OR total jealousy....there is absolute no other explanation for this sort of attitude/behavior. If you are supporting a friend or a friends endeavor for personal gain then do NOT offer it! I know this blog may sound angry, but honestly I am over being angry...yes a bit hurt inside but I'll live. It just really baffles me how people can be so SELF-Serving/selfish and not even notice it and if they do notice it...then YES TOTAL VAMPS! My former co-host was a vamp to me in many ways, I have forgave her not just because my Lord says to do so but to show her that I am REAL unlike her and many others the"50%" lol perhaps the "50%" will be the new title for these type of so called friends. I do want to take time to THANK YOU ALL FOR BEING SUCH DEDICATED READERS HERE! I really appreciate each of you for taking the time out of your lives to stop by and read whatever blog is current or even archived blogs. When I first began this blog I was not expecting to have so many readers, many are weekly readers and many are one timers that just stop by and read then on to the next persons blog. I have roughly 4K readers and at least 85% are my regulars so to speak. My readers here is just like my fans on the radio show..very diverse and come from all over the world and of all ages.....Very interesting to say the least. If you want to personally write to me or comment privately feel free to email me at mr.denniskelly@gmail.com MAKE the subject "Blog" so that I know it's not a spammer. If you have any newyear's resolutions, I would like to hear them so send me an email. Soon I will be posting video blogs/Vlogs on here so that YOU & I can be more personable. Many changes are coming in 2014, Changes coming to My radio show, changes in 50% of my so called "friends", changes to my business projects, and a complete change of attitude and mindset to where I am going to be very assertive or even flat out mean if I have to be...of course I don't like to treat anyone badly, that is why it bothers me soooo much to see it done to others and to have others treat me like a second class species. Not to sound like im full of myself BUT I do know What gifts and talents i do have and I am not wasting them anymore on people who DO NOT deserve shit from me! Ok that sounded angry again didnt it? lol...perhaps I am still a bit angry at these type of people. Shifting gears.....Tonight for new years eve, I will spend it with family & loved ones...I don't drink alcohol and I don't like bars so I think spending tonight with loved ones is a smart idea. To those of YOU that plan on drinking tonight PLEASE be careful and have a SOBER DRIVER! Drunk driving isn't just dangerous but STUPID all the way. Well My friends I want to wish YOU all a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR! FROM America to Russia, China, Japan, poland, the Netherlands, Israel, South America, Africa, Canada, Mexico, Austria, Australia, and many more THANK YOU AND AGAIN HAPPY NEW YEAR! I will post the very first Blog of 2014 very soon my friends...by then I will have even more clarity on some things that I will blog about. In closing..please share, follow, comment below, or just enjoy the read. Until next time friends, Bless you ALL! Truly, Dennis Kelly
Hey Dennis. I just read this blog entry this morning. Yes....it is a very angry post. I think perhaps you are letting your own hurt feelings cloud your estimation of other people.That's ok too. It is your blog and one of the things about blogs is that we can express our feelings on them. Just my humble opinion.
ReplyDeleteWhile there are many people out there that are "fake," I do not think they are quite as numerous as you think. Perhaps it is a matter of definition. To me, "fake" means people who put on airs and act like completely different people than they really are. I don't know very many like that. On the other hand, a lot of people wear masks to hide parts of themselves they don't like or are afraid to show. As a matter of fact, most people wear a mask at least part of the time. That is a result of living in a world, society, town, small group, or even near a single other person that would judge one harshly for not being what they expect. I think it is a big difference between Fake/vamp and masking. Masking is a self-preservation attempt. Also, people are busy just trying to make ends meet most of the time.
Anyway, one of my goals for the year is to try and meet those people with more compassion and understanding. We all fall short at times.
Thanks for reading and feedback Roxanne, :-) Your right! I was very angry and hurt when I wrote this blog. I feel MUCH better letting it out however personally I DONT feel that the hurt & anger clouded my estimate, not this time anyway lol, I will admit it has clouded me in the past but not this time. I feel MUCH better to vent and remove the Mask ;-) Thanks Roxie!
Deletehaving a safe place to vent is a good thing. If you are really surrounded by 50% "fake" people though, that is an awful lot. Makes me wonder if you have put up a big ol' magnetic sign attracting them to you. I estimate that less than 5% of people in my circle of influence and daily interaction would be "fake." Right off hand, I can't think of any.
ReplyDeleteLoL! No I'd NEVER have such a sign! I just am surrounded by a lot of people, not just locals but globally... I know many folks...prolly too many lol. 5% is good! My goal is to not only get to 0% but also continue some hardcore self discipline, When I said 50% I was including many not all of my "global friends" not just mere local folks even tho there's a few here lol. :-)
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